Who is irrelevant?!
Aug 25, 2019
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QrENE7mJ18M

hey you guys welcome back to my channel
and welcome to Sunday it is an evening
already for us it is 608 so there's that
I wanted to say welcome to again all of
my new subscribers thank you for joining
my channel I hope that you guys enjoy
not only is this my channel but this is
also my subscribers channel so always
feel comfortable to come in share your
guys's opinions I just ask that
everybody be as polite as possible we
have been having some issues with people
being a little rude I just got done
filming it
oops filming a cooking video so excuse
the fact that I am hotter than blaze but
we're gonna surprise survive okay
anywho I've always had an open platform
for the most part I've always allowed
people to come in and share their
opinions share their insight you know
I've always loved to hear other people's
opinions as well and I never want that
to go away I I don't want to get to a
point where I have to discontinue having
comments on my videos or you know
putting where I have to approve every
video or every comment that comes
through I could do that I really could
however one it takes extra time that I
really don't want to have to take and
two it takes the freedom of allowing
people to have that ability to do those
things I think some have gotten very
used to
I think a lot of people hat well some
have gotten very used to voicing their
opinion my glasses are steaming up
because it's hot and steamy who do we
know that from I think people have
gotten very used to being able to come
in and share and you know bounce ideas
and opinions off of each other and you
know and it's been nice but however
we've had some that have come in and
have just really been downright rude and
not considerate of other people's
feelings not being consider of other
people's opinions I can say probably
nine out of the ten that have been
coming on to my channel making very rude
comments to my subs to me are simply
people that aren't even subscribed to my
channel
they're simply coming in just to cause
havoc and that's what they want to do
they want to create chaos wherever they
can and I usually don't entertain it
because again it's a waste of my time
it's a it takes from the energy that I'd
rather be putting into bettering my
channel than trying to entertain people
that just don't deserve to have my time
to entertain them so I have been trying
my hardest to ignore them and to just
let them do what they're gonna do say
what they're gonna say if I you know
like I said before if the comments don't
have anything to do with my therapist or
my children I will not delete comments
and I don't however sometimes people say
that their comments have disappeared I
am not in control of that I think
YouTube has been upping their security
measures and also upping their roles and
I've heard a lot of people saying that
their channels are either getting their
comments disabled from YouTube
altogether or YouTube has gone in and if
there's keywords that are being used
they automatically will take them off
whether it's on a live or in a comment
so I don't know how much of that is true
but I do know that it is true and I do
know I mean I don't know how much of it
is true but I do know that it is
happening at least on my channel people
are you know voicing that their comments
are being gone and I'm not doing it
that's why I took my mods off was
because I didn't want them to be getting
blamed for something that they weren't
doing
I surely wasn't doing it so I'm thinking
that the next thing that could be is
YouTube is coming in and taking action
on comments that they don't agree with
or doesn't follow their guidelines I'm
assuming I guess so that brings me back
to kind of my comment of where I was at
a minute ago so you know I've had a few
of my subs come in and you know message
me privately and say you know that they
think that they're gonna have to
unsubscribe for my channel because you
know every time they make a comment
they're being attacked and some of these
people have channels of their own and
these people that are making nasty
comments are following their channels
and attacking them on their channels and
it's just a vicious cycle and my my
statement to you if your being one to be
being attacked is don't pay any mind of
attention to them but don't engage in
the drama do not engage in the chaos
that they're wanting to cause if I make
a comment on someone's channel I make
the comment I don't go back and look at
unless it says so-and-so replied back to
you then I'll go back and see their
comment or you nine out of ten it will
tell me what it was but I don't go back
and read any of the bottom comments
because what's the point is just gonna
upset me and then it's gonna start an
argument and then it's just gonna
continue to go and go and go so I just
get you know a lot of those messages and
also you know if you want subscribe for
my channel and I completely understand
if you needed to but if you do that's
exactly what they want they're wanting
to break down as many channels as they
can to see as many channels go away as
possible so if you and every other
person unsubscribes from any channel
that you're being attacked under that's
what they want they want to see channels
not make it you know I understand if you
needed to unsubscribe for my channel
because it's just you know for your
mental health or you know whatever if
it's just just not working out I get it
I understand but don't do it because of
them because of the trolls because of
the mean people don't don't allow them
to have the best of you so you just
don't want to allow them to have get the
best of you and make you feel like you
have to unsubscribe from anyone's
channel because of them so you know
again I can't control what happens on
other people's channels I can't control
what happens in other people's comment
area I can control what happens in mine
I am so sorry if you guys if any of you
are being attacked or you know offended
by some of the comments that are being
made back to you I am so sorry if any of
the my subs or my friends because I
consider all of you that are subs to my
channel you that you guys are friends of
mine I am apologizing on their behalf
and saying I am truly sorry that those
things are taking place on my channel I
try to you know I try to stay on top of
my comments to the best of my ability
however I get you know I do get quite a
few comments that come through and I
can't sift through every one of them I
will try my best but then if I go and I
start deleting comments then I'm being
accused that I'm trying to hide
something so I'm kind of like a catch-22
I have a little one trying to go to
sleep at 6 o'clock at night in a ham
thing you should too commander Lee your
son
anyways so I'm just you know I apologize
if anybody has had their feelings hurt
if anybody has trolled from my account
to your account for your channel causing
problems on your channel I apologize
unfortunately with YouTube land we are
never going to get away from them they
are like a fly that keeps coming back to
you you swat it away and it comes right
back that's what they are and
unfortunately it's they're never gonna
they're never going to go away they're
always gonna be there but how you handle
it is the way that they're gonna stay
around if you're gonna give them the
entertainment that they're looking for
they're gonna just stick around if you
just ignore them in a flick you don't
even observe them you don't see them you
don't hear them you don't see them let's
see them let me repeat myself again um
then they're gonna go away because
they're gonna get bored they're gonna
get bored of fighting with themselves I
guess so don't give them the attention
nor the entertainment that they're
looking for but I just want to say I'm
personally sorry if these things are
happening from my channel to your
channel or to you personally it's not my
intention I don't want anybody to come
to my channel and leave her that would
never be something I would want so
definitely I am really sorry I
personally I see some of the messages
but again like I said I can't delete
comments cuz if I do then I'm accused of
hiding things and I'm not hiding
anything I have nothing to hide nor do I
have anything to be ashamed of if people
want to be nasty and put their comments
out there they're gonna be the ones that
are being looked on by other people that
read their comment so and if you see a
negative comment that's the other thing
is if you see a negative comment being
written about me don't address it do not
address it please for my sake do not
argue with them for me I know where I
stand I know my Worth and I know what
I'm capable of and I know that I don't
have to argue with them and I don't want
anybody to fight my battle because at
the end of the day
you're gonna take the bullet before me
because you're seeing the comic before I
even catch it so and I don't want
anybody to be in that situation again I
don't want anybody to come to my channel
and leave hurt because you're just
trying to stick up for me and you know
you're you have your best intentions my
goodness
but at the end of the day they don't
care they just want to hit somebody and
they want to hit somebody under the belt
and they're gonna do it to whoever comes
to them first so just don't even address
them even if it is the most rottenness
comment ever on youtube don't even
comment back ignore it 100% a click you
didn't even see it that's what I do if I
can do it you guys can do it because
again I don't want to entertain the
drama I don't want to entertain this
this negativity it's it's old it's never
going to go away but if I can stop it a
little bit you know maybe they won't
manifest everywhere but right now it's a
hot thing for trolls to be out there and
bullying people it's sad in this day and
age when we already deal with enough
bullying to have to you know have a
channel and be bullied but you know
there are people out there I thought
that we should be teaching children not
to bully but not happening to address
adults but unfortunately I actually see
adults being worse bullies than children
so clearly we know where the children
are learning it from and I'm sure some
of these bullies are parents that are
doing this so their behavior is being
rubbed off onto their children and
that's how we're going to continue to
have a negative ugly world because
there's just too many mean people out
there that don't give a rat's butt who
they're hurting or who they're pulling
down for the day that's that's honestly
the reality of it so anyways I didn't
want to come on and do a rant in a rave
but at the same time I really needed to
address that because you know I've had
multiple messages from people and you
know people like I am so sorry Amy
they're commenting and I want to say
something and I'm just like don't don't
for my favor don't because I
don't I don't and they don't need
anybody to just like if somebody's
doesn't mean common about you don't
entertain it don't comment back act like
you didn't even see it know your worth
that's the biggest thing is know your
worth because if you entertain that
comment that's being made about you then
you're arguing with somebody to prove a
point that you don't have to prove so if
somebody says you're the worst person in
YouTube and you start arguing with that
person to prove them wrong why are you
having to prove your worth to somebody
that it doesn't matter you know you're
worth it you know you have an amazing
channel you know that you're beautiful
you know that you're an amazing parent
you know that you're an amazing daughter
son whatever you don't need to owe
anybody an explanation for anything
that's going on in your life so why
would you do it to somebody that is
irrelevant to you so that's my little
cut out for today and then I will also
have my video for my dinner I think I'm
gonna try and edit that and get that up
today
if not I'll put it up first thing
tomorrow I have counseling tomorrow
morning and then I have a friend coming
up tomorrow to spend some time with me
I'm so excited
I haven't had like a visitor for a long
time so it's gonna be nice just to be
able to chitchat and catch up I did my
nails today although I I did them and
then went into dishes and scuffed them
up okay i scuffed them up all over the
place like horribly but yes I did my
nails I was bored had nothing else to do
my kids have been excellent today and I
better hit some wood but anyways I hope
everybody is having an amazing Sunday
and that you all have an amazing start
to your guyses a week coming up take
care and I will talk to you guys really
soon bye bye
